How Do You Know Your Marriage Is Over?
If you are here because you typed some version of "how do you know your marriage is over" into a search bar at midnight, I want to start with this: asking the question does not
How Often Should Couples Go to Marriage Counseling? A Realistic Guide
"How often should we actually be doing this?" is one of the first questions couples ask once they decide to start marriage counseling. It is a fair question, and an honest one. You are not
What Is the Difference Between Marriage Therapy and Counseling?
You've decided to get help for your relationship. Now comes the confusing part: a quick search turns up marriage therapy, marriage counseling, couples therapy, and relationship coaching, all seemingly describing the same thing. Do the
What Percentage of Marriages Are Saved by Counseling? What the Research Really Shows
If your marriage feels like it is at a breaking point, you are likely asking a question that thousands of couples search for every day: What percentage of marriages are saved by counseling? The honest
Supporting Your Partner After Infidelity: Dos and Don’ts
Few moments rattle a relationship like the discovery of an affair. If you are the partner who strayed and you want to rebuild, supporting your partner after infidelity becomes the most important work in front
Working Through Grief and Trauma After an Affair
One of the most disorienting aspects of discovering an affair is that life can look outwardly normal while internally everything feels shattered. A betrayed partner often sits with the same agonizing questions: How could this
Preventing Repeat Offenses: Lessons from Affair Recovery
One of the most painful realities of infidelity recovery is that healing can feel possible after an affair—only to be shaken again if trust is broken a second time. Repeat offenses often create a deeper
The Five A’s of Affair Recovery: Steps Toward Healing
When infidelity comes to light, both partners face a difficult journey. The betrayed partner experiences shattered trust and emotional devastation, while the unfaithful partner must navigate the challenging path of making amends.
How to End an Affair with Clarity and Compassion
Many people try to end affairs passively—pulling away, dropping hints, or gradually fading out. This approach rarely works.
Early Warning Signs of Infidelity
Understanding vulnerability doesn't excuse betrayal—but recognizing the warning signs can help protect your relationship before crisis strikes.
Healing Through Curiosity: A New Approach to Affair Repair
I had the privilege of joining Behavioral Health Today for a deep, heartfelt conversation on healing after infidelity — and the profound role curiosity plays in moving us beyond blame, shutdown, and pain. Together we
The Addictive Nature of Affairs: Why It’s Hard to Let Go
The middle phase of an affair is often the longest—and the most confusing. This is where fantasy begins to collide with reality
Types of Infidelity: Understanding Physical, Emotional, and Online Affairs
When you hear the word “infidelity,” what comes to mind? For many, it’s a secret physical encounter.
Three Core Needs in Relationships: Are Yours Being Met?
We’ve all grown up with fairy tales and movies that end with “happily ever after.” But what does that “happy” actually look like once the credits roll?
How Your Family Shapes Who and How You Love: Healing from Infidelity
Our earliest experiences of love and connection come from our family of origin. These relationships shape our expectations, behaviors, and even the partners we choose as adults.
To Tell or Not to Tell: Should You Reveal an Affair?
Infidelity is one of the most emotionally complex and relationship-shattering experiences a couple can face. If you’ve ended an affair and now find yourself at a crossroads, you may be asking the question many before
Podcast Feature: Behavioral Health Today with Dr. Graham Taylor
I recently had the pleasure of joining Dr. Graham Taylor on the Behavioral Health Today podcast, where we explored the deeper causes and vulnerability factors that can lead to infidelity.
You’ve Been Caught: What Happens Next?
Affairs rarely stay hidden forever. Sometimes the secrecy unravels because your partner finds a suspicious text. Sometimes it’s your own guilt that cracks the facade. And sometimes, like a slow leak becoming a burst pipe,
Healing After Infidelity – A Conversation of Courage, Insight, and Practical Hope
In this exclusive interview from the Unlocking Love Summit, I sit down with Leigh and Steven Brown—an inspiring couple who chose repair over rupture after infidelity. Together, we unpack how they transformed betrayal into a
Why Can’t I Stop Thinking About It? Understanding Rumination After Betrayal
One of the most distressing aspects of betrayal is the constant mental loop that often follows: the replays, the questions, the imagined scenes, the emotional spirals that come without warning.
Reclaiming Your Voice: Boundaries, Self-Honoring, and the Work of Healing After Betrayal
In the wake of betrayal, it’s easy to get lost in the pain of what someone else did — and understandably so.
You Don’t Have to Bypass Your Pain to Be a Good Partner
In the aftermath of betrayal, particularly infidelity, it can feel like your entire world has been turned upside down. The partner who has been hurt is often flooded with pain, ruminating thoughts, and emotional triggers that seem impossible to control.
The Affair Recovery Timeline: What to Expect and When
Recovering from infidelity is one of the most emotionally complex and courageous journeys a couple can take. It demands resilience, introspection, patience, and a shared willingness to rebuild from the ground up.
Affair Recovery 101: Emergency Dos and Don’ts
When the truth comes out about an affair, the emotional fallout can feel overwhelming. Everything is fragile. Every word matters. If you’re the one who had the affair, it’s crucial to understand that what you
Affair Vulnerability Factors: Are You at Risk?
Infidelity doesn't happen in a vacuum. It’s not simply about a lack of morality, weakness, or bad character. In reality, it’s often the product of unmet needs, unspoken pain, and unnoticed disconnection—both within and around
Rebuilding Trust in Relationships
In this insightful episode of The Joel Evan Podcast, Dr. Jeanne Michele delves into the complexities of infidelity, offering a compassionate and practical perspective on healing relationships. Drawing from her extensive work with couples navigating
What Men Want in Relationships: Insights for Better Connections
When it comes to understanding what men want in relationships, we often encounter stereotypes and surface-level assumptions. But beneath those, there’s a deeper set of emotional needs and desires that drive men’s behavior and
Dream, Declare, Embody: Bringing Your Aspirations to Life
The start of a new year carries a natural energy of renewal—a chance to turn the page and reimagine what’s possible. While January often inspires fresh starts, the truth is, new beginnings can happen at
Why Do Affairs Happen? Common Drivers Behind Infidelity
Infidelity is one of the most destabilizing experiences a couple can endure. Over the years, I’ve worked with countless men who have shared with me their deepest regrets about the choices they’ve made. Many have
The Inspiration Behind The Infidelity Cure
Dr. Jeanne Michele’s book, The Infidelity Cure, is more than just a guide to healing relationships; it is a heartfelt tribute to the resilience, courage, and transformation of those who strive to become their best
Marriage Therapy Radio Episode
Is male infidelity really just about sex? Or is there a deeper story beneath the betrayal? Tune in to this thought-provoking and lively conversation as Dr. Jeanne Michele joins Laura Heck and Zach Brittle on
Dad to Dads Podcast
I thoroughly enjoyed connecting with Robert Poirier on his Dad to Dads podcast to discuss the complexities of infidelity and its impact on relationships and families. Robert's podcast is a genuine and grounded space,
Why I Wrote the Infidelity Cure
I’m often asked what inspired me to write The Infidelity Cure. In this video, I share a bit about my personal journey and the deeper reasons that led me to create this guide for men
ManSpace podcast
I had an absolute blast chatting with Less and Russ on the ManSpace podcast! Their unique blend of humor and authenticity makes for an entertaining and insightful experience. From discussing relationships to tackling the everyday challenges
The 7 Stages of Crisis Repair & Recovery — Creating What’s Next
Oh, a storm is threatening — My very life today. If I don’t get some shelter — Oh, I’m gonna’ fade away.” First Verse — Gimme Shelter — Rolling Stones. While contemplating the title for
Hold On. I Still Love You. – Infidelity. Does it really signal the end?
Affairs make headlines. The tabloids have a field day speculating on who might be sleeping with whom, particularly if the whoms are married to someone else. Inquiring minds want to know. Sex sells. We are
Can Our Relationship Survive an Affair? Rebuilding Trust and Finding a Path Forward After Infidelity
Can a marriage truly survive betrayal? Will trust and forgiveness ever be possible again? These are the agonizing questions that often plague couples in the wake of infidelity. While
Is Your Marriage Struggling? Here are 5 Key Steps to Help Turn Things Around
Saving Your Marriage: Strategies to Turn Things Around Saving your marriage may seem like a daunting task, but I’m here to tell you it’s absolutely possible. With the right tools and a shared commitment
The Time is Now to Live and Love With Courage and Authenticity
“You can’t heal what you don’t talk about.” This is the motto of this episode’s guest, Dr. Jeanne Michele. Seeing a human as a WHOLE integrated being that is multi-dimensional is essential to understand the basic
Jeanne Michele on Spiritual Equality
What does the resurgence of the sacred feminine look like? How do we make space for both men and women to evolve? How does one have a courageous conversation? In this episode, Jeanne Michele and
The Importance Of Presence And Showing Up In Your Relationship
We hear a lot about the importance of presence in our lives, but what does it really mean? What does it do for a relationship when you're fully present and fully showing up? Listen to
Thriving with Dr. Jeanne Michele
It was so great connecting with Dr. Jeanne Michele. I loved how it comes down to deep listening. And then, authentically speaking. When I think about the experimental leader and feedback loops, those are the
Thriving
Thriving with Melanie Parish Dr. Jeanne Michele talks with Melanie Parish about thriving and how to create strong environments and leadership in your workplace and your home. From Melanie, "It was so great connecting with
Spiritual Equality
Spiritual Equality What does the resurgence of the sacred feminine look like? How do we make space for both men and women to evolve? How does one have a courageous conversation? In this episode, Jeanne Michele
Finding Your Essence – Awaken Your Inner Awesomeness
In this episode, I joined Melissa Oatman to talk about how to tap in and find your inner essence, which is the core of who you truly are. I give tips for getting unstuck in life and learning how to find your true inner self.
You Can’t Heal If You Don’t Talk About It
You Can't Heal If You Don't Talk About It with Jyotsna Ramachandran and Experts on Purpose Listen In this exciting episode, Dr. Jeanne Michele dives into how she pivoted herself into a relationship coach to
How To Mend A Relationship After An Affair
In this informative discussion, Dr. Jeanne Michele joins Dr. Jessica Higgins on The Empowered Relationship Podcast where they talk about how to strengthen a relationship after an affair. They discuss the landscape of long-term intimacy, why the challenges we face can help us discover opportunities for personal and relational growth, and how we can engage and co-create with our significant other in that relationship growth.
Is it possible for a relationship to recover after a betrayal or infidelity?
Is it possible for a relationship to recover after a betrayal or infidelity? ? This is something that comes up all too often and I was able to join The Dating and Relationship Show to
How To Move Past Betrayal And Infidelity with Dr. Jeanne Michele
How To Move Past Betrayal And Infidelity with Dr. Jeanne Michele Dr. Jeanne Michele joins the Not Over, Just different podcast to talk about how couples can move past betrayal to make the relationship truly
The Healing Power of Courageous Conversations
You can’t heal what you don’t talk about. In this Expert Insight Interview, Dr. Jeanne Michele, a teacher, modern-day philosopher, change agent and coach passionate about helping people improve their lives and relationships talks
Are Men Really From Mars?
Are Men Really from Mars? Dr. Jeanne Michele had the opportunity to chat with Sandy Weiner on the Last First Date Radio show. Dr. Jeanne and Sandy talk about communication skills in dating and
Dr. Jeanne Michele on Not Over Just Different.
Dr. Jeanne Michele is a teacher, modern-day philosopher, change agent, and coach. And with her departure from traditional counseling, she is sharing how couples can navigate and recover from infidelity in a relationship.
Dr. Jeanne Michele’s work has been featured in the California Business Journal
I am excited and honored to be featured in the California Business Journal with two of my colleagues, Colleen McNamee and Daryl Cole. The three of us have formed an alliance to help with all aspects of divorce recovery. My work deals with the emotional aspects of this challenging time in 3 ways.
Share Your Story – with Patty Turrell
Patty Turrell talks about the importance of sharing your story. You can view the full interview here.
Leading Courageously
Leading Courageously is an art and a science. Whether you are a parent, student, Corporate Executive or Business Owner, you will encounter opportunities to lead. What are the characteristics of a Great Leader. Today's
5 Keys to Breathing Life Into Your Desire for Change
While you can inspire someone to change, change cannot be forced. No matter how badly we may want someone else to change, sustained change doesn’t stand a chance without strong internal motivation.
Love Grows Love
What I Learned About Love from a 7th Grade Science Fair Project. I don’t know if you have ever participated in a science fair project, either your own or helping one of your kids with theirs.
How To Make Valentine’s Day Special Even if You’re Single
Being single on Valentine’s Day doesn’t mean you have to cancel your plans. These fun ideas will help you have a blast on your own or with friends.
10 Ways to Build More Intimacy and Connection This Valentines Day
A couple cultivates and celebrates intimacy by undertaking the labor of understanding the person they’ve promised to love.
6 Goals for a Healthy Relationship And How To Achieve Them
All relationships could use some revamping every now and then to ensure that you have a healthy relationship at all times.
15 Relationship Tips – How To Make Your Relationship Strong (During the Pandemic)
2020 brought sweeping changes to our work lives, a complete one-eighty to our social lives, and increased friction to our love lives.
Hello & Goodbye
5 Creative Ways to Activate Your Vision as we Step Into this Powerful Year of Transition, Transformation and Healing. Tapping into the Healing Power of Ritual to Release the Past & Set the Your Desired Future into Motion.
Sacred Reflections of the Dark and Light
This is a big time of year for those of us who believe in God, and even for those of us who don’t. It is a time when the Spirit of Christmas descends upon the earth sprinkling a little more kindness into the hearts of humanity.
Welcome to the 2020 Holidays! A Season Like No Other!
Welcome to the 2020 Holidays! A Season Like No Other! How can we open our hearts to new ways to honor the season and each other? Yes, 2020 has
The Fragility of Democracy. Yes World, the U.S. is Vulnerable Too!
What 2020 Has Taught Us About Ourselves and the Impact of Living in a Media Driven Culture. “Those who can’t remember [don’t learn from] the past are condemned [doomed] to repeat it.” Jorge Augustin
The Healing Power of Crisis
Who Do I Want to Be? Cultivating Greater Resilience in the Face of A Crisis. Crises shake us at our core. They uproot our sense of safety and stability and cause us
Creative Ideas to Help Move Through Crises
Creative Ideas to Help Move Through Life’s Storms & Promote Growth, Healing, Connection & Acceptance. This month’s theme is working through crisis. This is one in a series of three posts
Working Through Communication Differences Part I
Courageous Conversations “We build bridges, instead of walls, when we muster up the courage to speak authentically and listen open-heartedly.” Dr. Jeanne Communication. One of the top challenges facing the world today.
Time Outs Are Not Just For Kids!
Time outs are not just for kids! Reacting vs. Responding. The Power of Pressing the Pause Button. Taking time to Pause to gather your thoughts, while in the midst of a heated
Relational Healing – The Joys and Challenges of Opening Your Heart
Relational Healing The Joys and Challenges of Opening Your Heart In relationship there are three important elements: You. Me. Us. While sometimes one of the three may take precedence over the other two,
Creativity and Becoming – Allowing Ourselves to Be Seen
Creating a new website is a deeply personal endeavor. Inherent in any creative endeavor is a surrendering into the unknown. The magic of the creative process is the emergence which comes from the deep
He Said. She Said. Communication Differences Between Men and Women
Dr. Jeanne Michele and John Seeley talk about the communication differences between men and women. A lot of times miscommunication can lead to big problems and ideally, we want to have some skills and
The Most Powerful Word
I would like to make a bold claim. Ready? I have the secret to the most powerful word in the English Language. What do you think? Would you at least be willing to take
Can We Pray for You? Chapter 2
It’s 5:30 a.m. and I just can’t seem to go back to sleep. The early morning is a favorite time to go walk on the beach, although it is still a bit early. Today
Can We Pray for You?
Simple sign taped to a bench on the Huntington Beach Pier. Can we pray for you? I walked by two men who smiled at me as I passed. They had coffee in two large
More than a Feeling – The Healing Power of Love & Commitment
More Than a Feeling Love is more than a feeling. Love is a powerful choice and commitment. To be with, care for, and stand by another is a sacred gift we give to our beloved
Addiction – It’s a Family Affair
Addiction is the silent killer of relationships with kids becoming collateral damage. A glass of wine with dinner? What would a football game be without beer? A couple of pills to help ease the
Infidelity – The Anatomy of an Affair
I am currently in the process of writing the first in a series of books on infidelity entitled Broken Promises. The pain of an affair is excruciating for everyone involved; husband, wife, kids, and the
The Art & Science of Dating Meetup Group
Are you just beginning to date again, or maybe just beginning to consider dating? Or have you been out there in the dating world for a while and are tired of your results? Dating
How to Avoid The Most Common Mistakes Singles Make When Searching for Love
Tips for Dating from Three Day Rule Dating and Matchmaking Service By: Tina Wie, Three Day Rule We often see our clients make the same mistakes when they first come to us searching for
Women’s Journey Conference
Eleven years ago a group of women pooled their resources to create a day to honor women. We wanted to give each woman the experience of being nurtured and celebrated. It was here that

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