‘Tis The Season
Reflections of the Dark and the Light
In the midst of this Season of Hope, Joy & Wonder, what can the Dark teach us about the Light?
Wishing each of you an Abundance of Peace, Love, Joy, and Christmas and Hannukah Blessings!
Dr. J
Be The Shamash
I so love this image and idea of Being the Shamash; being willing to offer light into someone else’s world.
What a beautiful way to integrate the Miracle of Hannukah into our daily lives.
Sometimes we are called to Be the Shamash, and other times we need to rely upon our friends and family to Be the Shamash for us. There it is again — Giving and Receiving.
As we move through the darkest days of the year, I invite each of us to embrace the idea of Lighting the way for others, and in moments of our own despair, reaching out and allowing others to Light Our Way.
Be The Joy
The Joy Candle invites us to call the Sacred into our midst in new ways.
In Catholic / Christian traditions we celebrate the Advent Season as a time of preparation for the Birth of the Holy into our world. This too is a time of candle lighting. For each of the four weeks prior to Christmas a new candle is lit, celebrating a particular quality, three purple, one pink candle. The Pink Candle is lit during the third week, reminding us that this is a time to Rejoice; to delight. While it can be challenging to be joyful when many of us are not able to celebrate the holidays together with extended family, and grieving the loss of people we love who are no longer with us in physical form, the Joy Candle invites us to call the Sacred into our midst in new ways. It reminds us to consider what we are grateful for, and step into a more heart-opening embrace of the essence of Life Itself, encouraging us to ask, surrender, notice, and receive. Adapting the quote from Mahatma Gandhi, we are invited to:
“Be the Joy we want to see in the world.”
Be Present
This is also a time of the Birth Miracle; the embodiment of Divinity into human form.
The birthing process involves bringing something from the Dark of the Unknown into the Lightness of Being; bringing the formless into form.
It is a time of honoring the Sacred Bond between Mother and Child. So many works of art have been dedicated to that beautiful bond. As a young girl I loved collecting Holy Cards depicting the tender connection between Mother and Child, a bond which is both specific and universal. Each of us has been born to a mother and each of us has mothered. (Yes, men too!.) How we are mothered provides a foundation for how we walk in the world and form relationships later in life.
Whether biologically or through projects, businesses, or ideas, each of us has given birth to something. The birthing process involves bringing something from the Dark of the Unknown into the Lightness of Being; formless into form.
Michelangelo speaks of creating his masterpiece The David, as a process of his releasing what was inside the marble. “I saw the angel in the marble and carved until I set him free.” What a beautiful description of creation, to set something free.
This year has highlighted the fragility of life and the uncertainty of the future. Perhaps the powers that be are inviting the world to pause for a bit, regroup, recalibrate, and reconsider how we can “see the angel in the marble” and help to set it free. When we are willing to see past a person’s outer shell, and treasure the essence of who they truly are inside, we help to free them from self-imposed darkness that may hide the truth of who they are. Sometimes simply listening to a person’s story helps to free them. Other times it may require a little more of us. This year let us be a little more mindful the gift our presence offers another. Whether via Zoom, phone, or in person, giving our attention those we love, and those whose lives may not be quite as bright this year, offers hope, joy, healing and connection.